Discuss Leviticus 18 Page 7

IN response to Harrisons statement about sex;Jesus made a differance about it in St. John 4:16-18.

Note that it was "the nakedness of his father." If we let the Bible interpret this for us, we read in Leviticus 18:8 that this means his mother! But, we know that the curse fell on Canaan because he was the one who had done the action, Ham did not restrain him or discipline him, though. We should be able to imagine what Canaan did that disrupted the family structure there. If not, we can see the types of things that Canaanites were known for in Lev. 18 (see verse 24 and 25).
It is poor exigesis that claims a curse upon people of a certain physical characteristic is valid, when it is obvious who was cursed.

I am lost about sex,where does it say you must be married before sex even if you are in a committed relationship and you love that person you with.

God's word is plain and needs no addition or subtraction. God hates sin but not the sinner as seen in John 3:16.