plz pray for me and my marriage ,as I feel like I no longer know my husband I feel like am with stranger .another thing is they is always something that we steal our joy ,we will fight and be mad at each other over small things,a week without fight it like a breakthrough
Listening is the greatest Act of Love - In Reply - 3 years ago
Trouble begins when people stop talking their Heart with their mate. We should hear out the other person fully, and not interrupt.
Personally I think television, internet and other media can be a terrible influence for husband/wife conversations. We have to turn off that VOICE.
Consider the help in Psalm 91, and pray that over your marriage. God said "the two become one." Allow no one else's voice to intrude into your marriage.
1 Corinthians 7, is the marriage chapter.
I really like Romans 7. Paul is really working the problem in his heart. I call it the "I" chapter__starting around verse 15. Then he gets to chapter 8:1-2, and is gloriously rewarded after all that warring he was doing.
I hope you'll read these chapters before you give up.
Marriage will return to normal when we do. So see what you can change to make your home more peaceful. Another OT scripture says, "set your house in order, because you're going to die." The King freaked and did it, and then asked God to spare him. God did.
Ask the Lord to help you set your house in order. I truly believe you love your man. Bring peace back in the home. LISTEN to what he is saying he needs.
You listening to other women is not the way; neither the voice of the world on tv or Facebook.
Adam and Eve were naked to each other. No one was covering over anything. It was heaven until satan saw a way he could destroy it. Other people, serpents, "the voice of the world"__are opposers to peace.
Be in each other's heart. Not the head. Prepare it with peace. Ask, can I get you something? Turn away from hair, nails, shoes; and if you WANT THIS MAN, ask him what he wants. Be silent while he speaks.
I speak from experience, sadly. Listening is a lost art of Loving someone.
After 42 years of marriage we still chose to be kind to one another, to speak honestly, to speak reasonably, and to speak encouragement to each other.
We laugh a lot and when we disagree we try to stay I topic without name calling, manipulative words or emotional displays to get our way, with the aim to talk it out, came to a conclusion or agreement or understanding of the other. We have had our ups and downs and hardships, but we choose to love each other each day and determine to tightly keep our vows to our partner and to God to stay together as one and to be handle the future of the other with care and deep commitment to be together all of our lives.
We also have been bless with very
Compatible personalities and that has helped us fuze our lives together peacefully.
For my husband and marriage, I am thankful and give all the glory to Jesus.
Personally I think television, internet and other media can be a terrible influence for husband/wife conversations. We have to turn off that VOICE.
Consider the help in Psalm 91, and pray that over your marriage. God said "the two become one." Allow no one else's voice to intrude into your marriage.
1 Corinthians 7, is the marriage chapter.
I really like Romans 7. Paul is really working the problem in his heart. I call it the "I" chapter__starting around verse 15. Then he gets to chapter 8:1-2, and is gloriously rewarded after all that warring he was doing.
I hope you'll read these chapters before you give up.
Marriage will return to normal when we do. So see what you can change to make your home more peaceful. Another OT scripture says, "set your house in order, because you're going to die." The King freaked and did it, and then asked God to spare him. God did.
Ask the Lord to help you set your house in order. I truly believe you love your man. Bring peace back in the home. LISTEN to what he is saying he needs.
You listening to other women is not the way; neither the voice of the world on tv or Facebook.
Adam and Eve were naked to each other. No one was covering over anything. It was heaven until satan saw a way he could destroy it. Other people, serpents, "the voice of the world"__are opposers to peace.
Be in each other's heart. Not the head. Prepare it with peace. Ask, can I get you something? Turn away from hair, nails, shoes; and if you WANT THIS MAN, ask him what he wants. Be silent while he speaks.
I speak from experience, sadly. Listening is a lost art of Loving someone.
Mishael
After 42 years of marriage we still chose to be kind to one another, to speak honestly, to speak reasonably, and to speak encouragement to each other.
We laugh a lot and when we disagree we try to stay I topic without name calling, manipulative words or emotional displays to get our way, with the aim to talk it out, came to a conclusion or agreement or understanding of the other. We have had our ups and downs and hardships, but we choose to love each other each day and determine to tightly keep our vows to our partner and to God to stay together as one and to be handle the future of the other with care and deep commitment to be together all of our lives.
We also have been bless with very
Compatible personalities and that has helped us fuze our lives together peacefully.
For my husband and marriage, I am thankful and give all the glory to Jesus.
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