Bible Discussion Thread

I have a women who I been dealing with for three years

And she is ok with pointing out my flaws and condemned me but when I show her her flaws just the same she gets upset and I don't.

She knows the Bible.

And she faithful on her word and following Christ

But humble kind and loving she is not.

She hold my flaws against me and I don't with hers

Hi William,

I'm praying for you now.

Maybe its time to move on. I would never tolerate such continual criticism- it's unhealthy for someone to continually hear that. And each time it continues unchecked it probably just reinforces her own bad behavior. Respect is very important, including respect as the Bible teaches. If it was a trusting healthy relationship you could read and discuss a verse like 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and ask how each is doing in applying it and how each person would know if you're following these scriptures or not.

If there was potential I think you would have referred to her as your partner, companion, girlfriend, love, wife, but you referred to her as just a woman you are "dealing with." That doesn't sound like you're very fond of her.

God bless

Hello . Have you told her how you feel when she does this ? If you don't tell her that she is hurting your feelings then she may not realise that she is doing so . I think that the most important thing in any relationship is communication . If you can't have honest and open conversation with the people you love and who love you , then who can you talk to ? Try letting her know how it makes you feel when she does this , no one is perfect , we all have flaws and failings , when you really love some one you take them as they are , flaws and all . I hope you to can sort this out and grow closer to each other and to your Saviour Jesus Christ .